Jul 29, 2021
Nicole Zasowski is a wife of ten years and mother to two young boys.
She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, writer, speaker, and author.
Nicole has the heart to help others find enduring peace and joy outside of circumstances.
Enjoy the multitude of topics discussed including performance, perfectionism, restoration therapy, miscarriages, and empty hands, plus so much more.
#MyStrengthIsMyStory #CreateYourNow #NicoleZasowski
Quotes and statements within the interview:
"I used to think joy came on the far side of a dream realized or a goal achieved. But what God taught me through that story is that the greatest joy is actually found when we're drained of misplaced hope and shallow identities."
"I had a really blessed childhood."
"Over time, I got this message that I was a little bit more special or a little bit more safe and secure if I was performing well."
"But I also knew because it wasn't anything I would have wanted."
"And I don't think God is the author of our suffering, but in His graciousness to us, He's not going to waste it either."
"I am not giving myself permission to be who I am and to connect with other people in a raw and vulnerable way."
"I think if you gave me the pen, I'm still not sure I'd be brave enough to write that story."
"I'm still not thankful for it. But goodness, am I thankful to be a woman who knows hope and knows our ultimate hope in Christ in a way I'm not sure I would have otherwise."
"And I learned that (you know) I can invite God into the feelings I have instead of trying to have the perfect feelings for God."
"Christ is in the mud with you."
"The ground is even at the foot of the cross."
"We have to get really hnest about the messages we're carrying around about our identity and sense of safety that again we might have good reasons for feelings and those feelings might be real, but there's a difference between feelings real and feelings being true."
What has your story gifted you?
"On the far side of pain we don't prefer, we will find transformation we wouldn't trade."
Resources mentioned in the episode:
"One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"
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